Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Question of the day....?


Stalker discussion at lunch with Giggler and Evil Genius prompted this.....

Is it better to have a bad stalker than no stalker at all?

Discuss.......

22 comments:

Kristina P. said...

Ha! Funny question. I'm going to go with it's better to have no stalker at all.

Just Breathe said...

I go with no stalker at all!

Mom said...

Having experienced a stalker, it is much better to have NO STALKER!!!!

Scrappy Girl said...

Yikes! I vote for NO STALKER! Having a stalker would freak me out.

CountessLaurie said...

When you say "bad" stalker, do you mean that they are bad at stalking? Having never had a stalker, good or bad, I still agree with the consensus, just say NO to stalking.

tammy said...

Are you talking blog stalker or real life stalker?

Erin said...

Definitely no stalker at all. I can't take the heat.

Sarah said...

I had a little bit of a stalker at one point and found it really annoying. I am going with no stalker. Is there such a thing as a good stalker?

Sher said...

Uh...I would say no stalker, if a bad stalker is one peaks into your bedroom windows, follows you to the DTD, and drunk dials you at midnight.
But, I wouldn't mind a little mild stalking...just to know I still got it.

Terri Ferran said...

is the stalker offering me diet Coke or chocolate?

Mel-Rox said...

I actually had a bonafide stalker. Trust me. You don't want a stalker at all. It is horrible.

Granted, mine was some love sick maniac that thought I was his forever after I served him drinks at a bar as a young waitress of 21. That was many years ago where they didn't have stalker laws.

The girl he stalked before me he almost killed in Texas. He obviously was on the run. He was in another state (VA) when he stalked me. To say that it was terrifying is a serious understatement.

He is still in prison in Texas for attempted murder and aggrevated malicious wounding.

Martha H. said...

I think stalkers are rather annoying.

Brittany Marie said...

As someone who has an unwanted stalker, I am going to say No Stalker at All.

SO said...

No Stalkers. Thank you very much.

Devri said...

Umm- NO stalker at all. Funny they came up with that!

Sue said...

I would say not!

I did have a secret admirer once when working at Nordstrom as a personal shopper. He knew where I lived, how many kids I had, what I drove. He wrote me notes unsigned...kinda freaky.

rychelle said...

no stalker at all. although i wouldn't mind a "good stalker" in my life right now. keeps things interesting.

DeNae said...

Well, define "bad". If he's, you know, "evil" then I'd probably opt for "no stalker".

But if he's just really bad at it, like he doesn't call me or follow me around or write love poems in chicken blood on my windshield, then where's the problem?

Heck, we could all have bad stalkers right this second and not even know it!

Motherboard said...

Is he a cute stalker?

Omgirl said...

I think it depends on the creep-factor. I had/have a blog stalker (I assume we're talking about blog stalkers?) and at first it was cool. Flattering. Fun to see what they wrote. But then it got kind of creepy. Inappropriate. Crossed some lines. Now it just gives me the creeps. EW.

Loralee and the gang... said...

Haven't had a stalker yet, so I have nothing to compare with...
the closest thing was that some guy 'followed' my blog, and his profile picture was a naked guy - from the VERy low waist, so you couldn't see anything, but just BArely - but I just blocked him. No drama there. Kind of freaked me out for a minute, though.
:~D

Natalie said...

I've had a bad stalker before, and it was a little scary. But harmless stalkers are kinda fun. Jake has had a few silly stalkers which makes life a little more entertaining around here. :)