tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post3186638721133395084..comments2023-11-05T05:06:10.713-07:00Comments on that's what she said: It's hard to find wordsmCathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16252684152629825538noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-85686002841634205122011-01-20T10:28:44.533-07:002011-01-20T10:28:44.533-07:00I'm sorry for the loss, and I feel bad that Si...I'm sorry for the loss, and I feel bad that Sissy will carry this through her life - BUT I think she has a great family on earth, along with her angels in heaven that will continually give her the guidance and answers she'll need. XOXO.Plain Jamehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07796659966659734268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-84168972073942867582011-01-14T09:12:23.002-07:002011-01-14T09:12:23.002-07:00oh yeah. screw those rude people.oh yeah. screw those rude people.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-14494539851022211182011-01-14T09:11:57.080-07:002011-01-14T09:11:57.080-07:00such a beautiful post melissa. i've been thin...such a beautiful post melissa. i've been thinking about you a lot.<br />you are so amazing and that little girl is so lucky to have you in her life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-64144844218188185412011-01-13T08:08:18.790-07:002011-01-13T08:08:18.790-07:00It's all been said, and so beautifully. Do kno...It's all been said, and so beautifully. Do know that I have kept you and your family in my thoughts and every prayer. <br />BIG ((hugs))gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12105810181528386036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-90876442690350365112011-01-12T23:28:57.090-07:002011-01-12T23:28:57.090-07:00Pain and heartache take time to pass.
The biggest ...Pain and heartache take time to pass.<br />The biggest things are do not punish yourself and second...never quit talking about her.<br />When my husband and I were dating, I knew his mom had passed away...but there was never any talk of her.<br />Sometime after we had been married a person made a comment about his mom the questions everyone had and how hard it was on the kids...<br /><br />I went to my husband and said...I want to know the secret...the secret about your mom...<br />she had committed suicide... and some 10 years later he and his siblings set in my front room and I said...I want to know about your mom...the good and your memories...<br />I was so glad that that event took place...this special women who was trying to raise 6 children on her own...who loved her family and the gospel...I feel in love with her and knew I had missed out on getting to meet her. When our children were old enough to understand and asked why they did not know there grandma Wanda...it was not hard to tell them about her...though nobody knows the reason for her taking her life...we do know our heavenly Father's plan.<br />You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.Janiecehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07719395047651079234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-71007374208435957702011-01-12T21:59:35.693-07:002011-01-12T21:59:35.693-07:00hugs to you and your family...you guys ROCK and si...hugs to you and your family...you guys ROCK and sissy is a lucky gal to have you !!!!dubb and dawnihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14799235195687624843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-33066100683276759772011-01-11T20:33:30.493-07:002011-01-11T20:33:30.493-07:00You are an amazing amazing lady!!! You have handl...You are an amazing amazing lady!!! You have handled everything with such class and such grace. Such an inspiration to your friends and family. And the way you talk about Miss Sissy, it brings tears to my eyes. Your love for her just jumps off the page. This new life will definitely be a marathon run for you, but no one does a marathon better than you!!! Love you tons!!!Nataliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00883105612630022719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-8170956886876950872011-01-11T20:11:02.809-07:002011-01-11T20:11:02.809-07:00Oh how I want to hug you! First from
Your comment ...Oh how I want to hug you! First from<br />Your comment on my blog, second and most of all from catching up with you. <br /><br />I'm so sorry about all that has happened. I have no doubt that sissy will feel and know all the love you hope for her. She is lucky to have a meemaw like you. I will pray for you, your family and Jillian's as well.Brittany Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07018589408354999274noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-74613087815892657252011-01-09T16:40:54.432-07:002011-01-09T16:40:54.432-07:00Keep sharing your story. You have 39 comments from...Keep sharing your story. You have 39 comments from loving people who care about you and what you have to say.You have taught us how to love, how to grieve and how to go on.<br /><br />Every time you have ever shared anything about Sissy, I have felt you were talking about your own daughter. You "really love her", and it's obvious that you would do anything for her.<br /><br />Your the best MeeMaw ever.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17498060196353848915noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-31664275369286665412011-01-09T08:58:17.879-07:002011-01-09T08:58:17.879-07:00Sounds like you are going to be alright. How luck...Sounds like you are going to be alright. How lucky Sissy is to have you. And even though your life is turned upside down right now, it seems that you are the kind of person who will recognize her as a blessing as well.Kellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08338688515732965297noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-41858446237064903912011-01-09T02:37:32.628-07:002011-01-09T02:37:32.628-07:00I'm so glad Chloee has you! She is one lucky ...I'm so glad Chloee has you! She is one lucky girl! You are amazing on the outside and inside, when people are watching and when they aren't. <br />You're a beautiful woman!Emily :)https://www.blogger.com/profile/02334059853092949929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-10544008045216647852011-01-08T19:44:38.310-07:002011-01-08T19:44:38.310-07:00I don't have words either. I wish I knew exac...I don't have words either. I wish I knew exactly what to say to make all the pain go away. <br /><br />You, Sissy, dawg, Splenda... you are all in my prayers. <br /><br />I pray Jillian has found peace.<br /><br />LaurieCountessLauriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09789441493168935934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-33331379223871994982011-01-08T19:42:59.526-07:002011-01-08T19:42:59.526-07:00I can not imagine how hard this must be. I am so g...I can not imagine how hard this must be. I am so glad Sissy has you and Splenda. I know how hard these changes can be for little ones. While it is not exactly the same all 8 of my children have lost their birth parents. It is never easy.She is one blessed little girl. I have thought often of you and will continue to keep you in my prayers.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11456846201807604143noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-4240204849563379412011-01-08T19:13:23.706-07:002011-01-08T19:13:23.706-07:00I am a new follower to your blog. My heart broke f...I am a new follower to your blog. My heart broke for you and your family when I read your last post in December! We were going through the tragic and unexpected loss of a friend in our little valley at about the same time. I wanted to post a comment then, but just didn't know what to say. So I sent silent prayers your way and thought of you and your family often during the past weeks. I'm so glad the Marine Corps. has been so good to your 'Dawg. My daughters ex-boyfriend is a marine (we are so proud of him! It just didn't work out for them though)He is currently in Japan for two years. Anyway, that is how I stummbled across your blog in November when you were posting about Dawgs bootcamp journey. I can't even remember who's blog I was on when I found you, but that doesn't really matter. I'm sending prayers to you and your family from Nevada! ((((HUGS))) to you all and little Sissy!DesertHenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14299030668463978206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-38844272588717403322011-01-08T18:36:27.554-07:002011-01-08T18:36:27.554-07:00At the same time I am so sorry for what you are de...At the same time I am so sorry for what you are dealing with, I am so impressed with the grace you are handling it with. You are a gem, and SIssy is so blessed to have you and everyone in your family to love and support her. I am just so sorry that this has happened, hugs and prayers to you.Mrs. Ohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14159440829600935461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-32230836138160468052011-01-08T17:26:43.873-07:002011-01-08T17:26:43.873-07:00A dear friend said to me last year while going thr...A dear friend said to me last year while going through my own personal trails the following....<br /><br />It is surprising yet amazing to think that we knew that all these "things" would happen before we came to earth, YET WE STILL CHOSE TO COME. <br /><br />The best pick me up ever! That means we believed in ourselves enough in heaven to take it on here on Earth. Remember that not only do all these amazing friends believe in you......but YOU believe in you.<br /><br /><br />Love you and your family so much!Carinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06002291087892368079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-69535573388021946292011-01-08T16:15:19.681-07:002011-01-08T16:15:19.681-07:00I love ya, girl!I love ya, girl!Martha H.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02907833943130291826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-84630125791242262942011-01-08T10:08:59.631-07:002011-01-08T10:08:59.631-07:00My heart breaks for you and your family. I wish I...My heart breaks for you and your family. I wish I had words of comfort that would make everything all better, but I don't. So just know that I am thinking about you and praying for you.Erinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16913479841360204974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-20902475751130252772011-01-08T09:43:49.442-07:002011-01-08T09:43:49.442-07:00Melissa, like I said on your facebook.....I sooooo...Melissa, like I said on your facebook.....I sooooo feel everything of which you speak. I have never known such pain as loosing my son. I too have asked myself a thousand times "what could I have done to change things" I am tormented by the fact he died alone....and I wonder what he was thinking/feeling at the time. Was he mad? sad?lonely, despair what?????<br />just like you<br />It is one of those things in life that just plain suck I guess and we have to learn from.<br />YOU are a wonderful lady, I know and felt that from our conversation when I was in Utah. Sissy will be so cherished. and for that....she is blessed. <br /><br />I hate the ANON people. such cowards and heartless people. Oh those who judge.....HOW do they feel they know everything and can set themselves on a higher plain.<br />baffaling.<br /><br />hugs to you. It slowly, EVERY so sowly starts to get less painful. Those stabs to your heart, and punches to the gut will start to feel less severe.<br /><br />But we will never forget<br />any of it will we..........cause we love<br />and we're momswendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13619293936418976914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-36556263679386394412011-01-08T08:38:50.139-07:002011-01-08T08:38:50.139-07:00What can I say that hasn't been said? Amen an...What can I say that hasn't been said? Amen and amen.<br /><br />Love you. <br /><br />And anon, in the game of life, you LOSE!!tammyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10849649019416902710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-18763105419857142422011-01-08T07:53:39.888-07:002011-01-08T07:53:39.888-07:00Dear Melissa,
Throughout the last few weeks my mi...Dear Melissa,<br /><br />Throughout the last few weeks my mind and heart have been with you more than can even be explained. The situation has sparked many a conversation with my own family. Although, i can not feel the pain that you are experiencing, I want you to know that my prayers for you and your entire family have been continuous. <br />Anyone that has ever experienced the love of a grandmother can be sure that Sissy will indeed feel that from you.<br />Your strength is something that I have emulated over the last year and you continue to show me that it is indeed something that I should strive to have.<br />Love you more than words can express and will continue to keep you in my everyday thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />MaeMae Raehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14249395652826136545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-23091892305099547172011-01-08T05:03:10.061-07:002011-01-08T05:03:10.061-07:00You all have been in my thoughts and prayers. Sis...You all have been in my thoughts and prayers. Sissy is very fortunate to have you to lean on.Merri Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01777226666974537073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-1163706890586797862011-01-08T04:30:01.804-07:002011-01-08T04:30:01.804-07:00I m so glad that you guys are there for that littl...I m so glad that you guys are there for that little girl. You're in my thoughts.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03431751293876429570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-27432732974838079292011-01-08T01:05:13.319-07:002011-01-08T01:05:13.319-07:00I was going to tell you to be strong. But you alr...I was going to tell you to be strong. But you already are. You might not feel it, but you are!Beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08209811713351444726noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1325664396085481862.post-4989145201869194772011-01-08T00:59:14.623-07:002011-01-08T00:59:14.623-07:00Em--
The sharp stabbing grief will eventually subs...Em--<br />The sharp stabbing grief will eventually subside. Until then know that you're not alone. Not one bit.<br /><br />I think you and Splenda are some of the awesomest people I know!<br /><br />So for now...Eat, pray, love, breathe in, breathe out, drink some bubbly, burp, sleep, cry, drink some more brown bubbly, burp, water the porcelain flower pot, and repeat steps as many times as necessary.<br /><br />You are loved!Terri Ferranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04274958417564152475noreply@blogger.com